Or our greatest liability!
Good news: It’s up to us! We can decide which it’ll be – Asset or liability?
We certainly live in interesting times. The economy. Terrorism. Fill in the ____________! What’s your most disturbing concern? Don’t say it out loud. Reflect on it for a moment. How does it affect your attitude? Your behavior?
Personally, I can get “a bit” cynical (the StealthWife believes that to be a gross understatement!) in response to external concerns. With my attitude in a cynical tail spin it’s hard to find a way through the uncertainty, turmoil, and seemingly-daily crisis swirling around the public domain. “Everything’s broken! Argh!!” That’s an all-too-common refrain these days.
“The Carnegie Institute not long ago analyzed the records of ten thousand persons and concluded that 15 percent of success is due to technical training. The other 85 percent is due to personality, and the primary personality trait identified by the research is attitude. Our attitudes determine what we see and how we handle our feelings. These two factors greatly determine our success.” – Developing the Leader Within You, John Maxwell.
Consider the implications of Dr. Maxwell’s statement: “Our attitudes determine what we see….”
As 2010 closes in on us, will our attitudes cloud our vision – blinding us to opportunities that surely lie in the uncertainty we face? Personally, it doesn’t feel like I’ve got clarity on potential opportunities. Yet, in September I started talking with people about plans for a successful 2010. Does that make me more prepared or give me a competitive edge? Maybe. It has dramatically shifted my attitude about the coming year. I’ve stepped up to apply the Stockdale Paradox* to my attitude for 2010. And with grim determination I’ve committed to making my attitude a game-changing asset for a successful 2010. Opportunities to learn abound with the right attitude. For example, last Friday I spoke with someone who experienced 30% growth in their business in 2009. I booked a lunch meeting to learn more. Carpe diem!
How about you? Are you reaching out more? Learning more with the intent to find a positive path through the continuing economic storm? Or are you “hunkering down” to weather the storm (hiding in the cellar until the tornado passes)?
Remember what Dr. Maxwell teaches: “Our attitude determines what we see….” My experience has been that when I don’t like what I see, striving for change from the inside out results in a new picture. It doesn’t make reality or real life challenges go away. A change in attitude empowers us to find solutions to seemingly impossible situations. Being an “inside job” it’s also something we can control!
As New Year’s Eve approaches, perhaps searching deep in your heart and reflecting on this question could have an enormous impact on your life in 2010: Will your attitude be a liability or your biggest asset?
*If you’re not familiar with the Stockdale Paradox, Jim Collin’s Good To Great And The Social Sector is a must-read. The Social Sector monograph provides an excellent summary of the original book. along with new insights. Jim Collins’ interview with Admiral Stockdale in Good To Great provides invaluable insight into the power of attitude.